IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's...

ex lover??

say they been parted for years.....

would you date your sister's old boyfriend.. or your brother's old girl?
why or why not???

Nope, I wouldn't. It would just be too weird to me knowing that this person has had intimate moments with my sister.

is it a moral issue??? or people think its bad luck or the scandal???

Hmmm, for me it would be a combination of many things. Definately add scandal in that mix, then add taboo...you know friends and family's men should be considered off limits, and then add moral into it. Personally, I just couldn't imagine getting myself into that situation.

but they no longer date.. and havent for years.. it didnt work out for them.. so that makes him off limits??


this means he/she will be off limits to your close friends too, ehn?

am not saying its right or wrong, yet.. just asking away... hahaha

Yes, for me... I wouldn't date anyone who has dated my sister. Now, if my close friends want to date one of my exes then that is on them, but I wouldn't knowingly date someone that a close friend of mine has dated.

candygirl wrote:

is it a moral issue??? or people think its bad luck or the scandal???

It's a moral issue with me....and just scandalous.....just like I could never "knowinly" date a man one of my "friends" have dated.

LovinLiberia wrote:

Yes, for me... I wouldn't date anyone who has dated my sister. Now, if my close friends want to date one of my exes then that is on them, but I wouldn't knowingly date someone that a close friend of mine has dated.

For some reason I would to this object to this too...even if it's my ex.

It depends on how people perceive things and how they want to live their lives in society. It is not illegal though but it cast doubt on people mind about your activity. There are plenty women or men to chase instead of dating your sister or brother XXX... I am not oblige to engage in it once i know the later...

Geyla Queen wrote:

LovinLiberia wrote:

Yes, for me... I wouldn't date anyone who has dated my sister. Now, if my close friends want to date one of my exes then that is on them, but I wouldn't knowingly date someone that a close friend of mine has dated.

For some reason I would to this object to this too...even if it's my ex.

I would, too...but if they really wanted to go ahead with it, then I would have to let them since I couldn't force them not to.

so if you fell in love with a guy who your older sister had dated many years ago.... you would resist the love cuz da your sister old thing???

If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it!

candygirl wrote:

so if you fell in love with a guy who your older sister had dated many years ago.... you would resist the love cuz da your sister old thing???

Yup.

Traveller wrote:

If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it!

Men.. :

LovinLiberia wrote:

Traveller wrote:

If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it!

Men.. :

So if your sister dated Boris Kodjoe and later you started falling ni love with him, you'd deny yourself the love? Me pa, I jeh lek Jada Pinkett business.

LovinLiberia wrote:

Traveller wrote:

If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it!

Men.. :

EXACTLY ...only in their dreams...but they have to think out loud

Although the brotha is fine and I would be secretly lusting after him, YES, I would stay away.

Geyla Queen wrote:

LovinLiberia wrote:

Traveller wrote:

If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it!

Men.. :

EXACTLY ...only in their dreams...but they have to think out loud

Traveller wrote:

If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it!

hahaha....

Ok, Mrs. Candygirl...what's you perspective in this whole thing?

Geyla Queen wrote:

LovinLiberia wrote:

Traveller wrote:

If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it!

Men.. :

EXACTLY ...only in their dreams...but they have to think out loud

well, i wouldnt say "men".... say "humans"
cuz we all do some interesting stuff

i was actually waiting for one particular member to talk, but he acting scared.. soo....

I cannot date any girl who I have seen hanging around my
brother or friends. I see this to as a dirty relationship. It is something like inviting a curse upon the both
parties. This shows that the person involve does not have any moral value and can do
anything to please his/her sexual desire.

Philomath wrote:

I cannot date any girl who I have seen hanging around my
brother or friends. I see this to as a dirty relationship. It is something like inviting a curse upon the both
parties. This shows that the person involve does not have any moral value and can do
anything to please his/her sexual desire.

when you say Moral, what you mean?

To the secret person who is afraid to answer,

Please answer quickly because I'm anxious to see where candygirl is heading with this. I don't like suspense.

Kthnxbi!