YOU'VE GOT TO HELP YOUR HUSBAND

They had been from doctor to doctor, acupucturists, chiropracters, proctologists, dermatologists, you name it and they had been there.

The husband just could not find what his issue was. They finally decided to go to a shrink, both husband and wife. The wife did not like the idea since it made them both look crazy...A SHRINK!!!

So the psychiatrist called the man first and proceeded to question him about his work, his wife, love, etc...

And then next was the wife. The doctor then asked her about home, work, love, etc.

The doctor after talking with the wife told her in essence, "You are starving your husband." All that man needs is love. When he gets home, give him a kiss, fix his bath, cook his favorite food etc...do those things...

Meanwhile, the man squirmed in the waiting chair outside, thinking about what could possibly be wrong with him.

And then his wife came outside and just went pass to the exit, he scurried to join her, asking,"What did the doc say, honey."

All she said was, "I think you are going to die..."

man! she really must not love, like or care about him to say that...

Yep, she said it. If I have to do all that, you are going to DIE.....

too bad.. wonder what happened

No patience...

gadyu wrote:

They had been from doctor to doctor, acupucturists, chiropracters, proctologists, dermatologists, you name it and they had been there.

The husband just could not find what his issue was. They finally decided to go to a shrink, both husband and wife. The wife did not like the idea since it made them both look crazy...A SHRINK!!!

So the psychiatrist called the man first and proceeded to question him about his work, his wife, love, etc...

And then next was the wife. The doctor then asked her about home, work, love, etc.

The doctor after talking with the wife told her in essence, "You are starving your husband." All that man needs is love. When he gets home, give him a kiss, fix his bath, cook his favorite food etc...do those things...

Meanwhile, the man squirmed in the waiting chair outside, thinking about what could possibly be wrong with him.

And then his wife came outside and just went pass to the exit, he scurried to join her, asking,"What did the doc say, honey."

All she said was, "I think you are going to die..."

Funny. Everyday she should do that. No she loves him but that is tiring, especially if she has a job.

For better, for better, you get worse you gone....I think that is wha she is saying...

gadyu wrote:

For better, for better, you get worse you gone....I think that is wha she is saying...

hummm maybe you right there cuz some people only want to be around for the good times.. when things get rough.. they get going...

But da true story oh, I just make it look like that. True story be dat from the homeland...

thats life G.. its not strange that these things happen. dont wanna make it the woman vs men issue but women face this practically more times in one lifetime than a man would in ten lifetimes..

Well, It then leaves one to wonder why the stats are stacked against women in the scenarios. Is it that the lens from which marriage is being viewed is changing, or has it been like that and will be like that forever?

Take for example the way the stars wed nowadays, the pre-nup, etc....That is a preparation for divorce, and they do, alot of times.

I am all for marriage, I am a family man, but suntin is wrong, otherwise I think all we need is God, we cant do it ourselves.

gadyu wrote:

Well, It then leaves one to wonder why the stats are stacked against women in the scenarios. Is it that the lens from which marriage is being viewed is changing, or has it been like that and will be like that forever?

Take for example the way the stars wed nowadays, the pre-nup, etc....That is a preparation for divorce, and they do, alot of times.

I am all for marriage, I am a family man, but suntin is wrong, otherwise I think all we need is God, we cant do it ourselves.

das hollywood
i sure know Mr. M didnt ask me to sign no prenup.

gadyu wrote:

Well, It then leaves one to wonder why the stats are stacked against women in the scenarios. Is it that the lens from which marriage is being viewed is changing, or has it been like that and will be like that forever?

Take for example the way the stars wed nowadays, the pre-nup, etc....That is a preparation for divorce, and they do, alot of times.

I am all for marriage, I am a family man, but suntin is wrong, otherwise I think all we need is God, we cant do it ourselves.

Gadyu,
Pre-nup is the best route if u want to avoid a nasty break up. Pre-nup protects u from all the hala-hala about money business. iffy i have money and house when I marry, I will make sure my Liberian wife sign a pre-nup.

KWAME wrote:

gadyu wrote:

Well, It then leaves one to wonder why the stats are stacked against women in the scenarios. Is it that the lens from which marriage is being viewed is changing, or has it been like that and will be like that forever?

Take for example the way the stars wed nowadays, the pre-nup, etc....That is a preparation for divorce, and they do, alot of times.

I am all for marriage, I am a family man, but suntin is wrong, otherwise I think all we need is God, we cant do it ourselves.

Gadyu,
Pre-nup is the best route if u want to avoid a nasty break up. Pre-nup protects u from all the hala-hala about money business. iffy i have money and house when I marry, I will make sure my Liberian wife sign a pre-nup.

Am i to take this as your view is only Liberia women give guys messed up divorced and hala-hala for money? or preferably you only intend to marry a Liberian woman..

Interesting topic....i reserve my comment for this one

candygirl wrote:

gadyu wrote:

Well, It then leaves one to wonder why the stats are stacked against women in the scenarios. Is it that the lens from which marriage is being viewed is changing, or has it been like that and will be like that forever?

Take for example the way the stars wed nowadays, the pre-nup, etc....That is a preparation for divorce, and they do, alot of times.

I am all for marriage, I am a family man, but suntin is wrong, otherwise I think all we need is God, we cant do it ourselves.

das hollywood
i sure know Mr. M didnt ask me to sign no prenup.

Well,

If he changed his name to Mr. Mahyou and you didn ask for a prenup, then you were dayqwhipped. You who have the assets ask for the pre nup, otherwise when you stepping, you leaving half behind.

I think people who have alot of material wealth to lose would sign prenups. In marriage, people usually are in there for the long haul and intend to get rich together.

If I inherited a hundred million and then had to marry, for example, Mahyou. I will ask her to please sign a pre nup. Of course if she comes with her own of hundred million, that case will be moot.

We both now have two hundred milion. Still..........

I intend a marry a LIB woman... yep... the problem is when you start feeling you have some power over the person...ex: my friend... a very hard working guy he own 20 cars at the time, with no papers U.S Docs, he marry a LIB woman, it was about 6 to 8 months left to get his papers... she started her show, toke him money (their money) and give it to her boyfriend, give his car to boyfriend, call cops on him and at the end he devorce her...

he left all the cars and money with her ! by the next year she was broke.... and he wasn't... the boyfriend she was acting for had a girlfriend at the time too, and his words was *if she can do it to him she can do it to me*

sorry for my poor writing today ...

African, where was your juice...hahahahahaaaaaa

gadyu wrote:

I think people who have alot of material wealth to lose would sign prenups. In marriage, people usually are in there for the long haul and intend to get rich together.

If I inherited a hundred million and then had to marry, for example, Mahyou. I will ask her to please sign a pre nup. Of course if she comes with her own of hundred million, that case will be moot.

We both now have two hundred milion. Still..........

Moot eh?

Aye, Candy....no moot business, when she going she still want carry some of my hundred ehn....lol