Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way?

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African men- 'specially Nigerians - lawd pupa god! I like compliments as much as the other woman does. However, don't be telling me that I have child baring hips and all dat razzamatazz- it's quite off putting and frankly quite creepy. Another thinng, what's the the stiffling, stalker type ting?? I mean how many things do you need to utter to someone in a day? and If you call and the phone isn't answered, don't call back in quick succession! the phone still won't be answered...

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I agree they can be stubborn. I had a friend and we decided to go out
to the club as a group thing. 2 guys and 2 girls, well my friend's
friend was interested in me and the next thing I know it was on. He
asked me if he could buy me a drink, I don't drink so I told him no
thanks. When he went to the bar another guy asked me to dance, I was
dacning with the guy and could see out of the corner of my eyes he was
standing there getting pissed.

He drank whatever he was drinking and asked me to dance, fine I danced
with him until he started being too touchy touchy besides now his
breath was stinking. The we got int an arguememt with him trying to
tell me I can't dance with anybody else. That was on a Friday night, he
showed up at my friend"s job ( which was down the street from my
apartment) proceeded to sit in the lobby until I came home. My friend
warned me I asked one of my girlfriend's if I could sleep at her place,
she said sure we went shopping for clothes, underwear tooth brush and
things. He camped out there the whole night, when I came home he had
callled and cussed so much demanding to know where I was.


When he finally got me on the phone he wanted to know how many babies
that we were going to have. I told him none, he argued how could I say
that I didn't want any babies, every woman has to have babies and that
was that. He then decided he would work while I stayed home, I told him
no that would never happen. He then said that I could work and he would
stay home.
My friend swears I must have kissed him or something the way he acted a
fool. He did so many other stupid things, I'm sure it would be funny on
TV but while you are in it it's not funny at all. My family and friends
were dying laughing, they just wanted me to give this guy a chance so
they would have more stories to laugh at. He was very handsome and all
but I just wasn't feeling him at all.

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Africans on a whole have dis aura of excitement
going on with them. They just always a couple notches higher than I
would like. The ones that were born in the states (or just outside
Africa) seem to be toned down a bit though...

can't help you there :)

well i've heard of one or two like that but never experience it to that magnitude before.

LOL

Just getting an opinion. Everyone's reality is different and certain people attract certain people.

DSP wrote:

LOL

Just getting an opinion. Everyone's reality is different and certain people attract certain people.

true but it does happen.. like i said mine wasnt to that magnitude of the guy asking how many kids we were gonna have but he had convince himself we were a couple already.. without even going on a date. just casual conversation amongst friends on two ocassions.

how would u handle a situation like that

She and the Guy is talking... it looks like she made the guy to think she like him back...

that is y i don' rush into relationship....

Africanjuice wrote:

She and the Guy is talking... it looks like she made the guy to think she like him back...

that is y i don' rush into relationship....

leading him on to think she likes him isn't right i agree but how does that give him the impression that they should start counting number of kids to have after marriage and camping outside her apartment all night?

every guy does that ! ... that is easy to say .. just making conversion

Africanjuice wrote:

every guy does that ! ... that is easy to say .. just making conversion

I'm trying to be real with you flower... i have done it before and girls have done it too me too.... how they wants to have my kid and marry and blah blah ... just conversion...

ok i got you now.. well that does happen also.. just conversation ehnn... nice way of putting it .

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

looka

Geyla Queen wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

looka

eh ah jus trying to learn.

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

Bring your ear lets talk secret .......

DSP wrote:

Geyla Queen wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

looka

eh ah jus trying to learn.

mahyou wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

Bring your ear lets talk secret .......

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Geyla Queen wrote:

mahyou wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

Bring your ear lets talk secret .......

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this room is big enough...

mahyou wrote:

Geyla Queen wrote:

mahyou wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

Bring your ear lets talk secret .......

:

this room is big enough...

mahyou wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

Bring your ear lets talk secret .......

my ears are sensitive

LadyFlo wrote:

DSP wrote:

Geyla Queen wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

looka

eh ah jus trying to learn.

mahyou wrote:

Geyla Queen wrote:

mahyou wrote:

DSP wrote:

mahyou wrote:

i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....

pm me your turn ons.

Bring your ear lets talk secret .......

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this room is big enough...

that's right

I don't think Liberian men act like this. I have dated Nigerian men who acted like this. Even though we only went on dates to the movies or dinner. They felt like it should be more than friends. One showed up to my house without calling and I didn't let him in. I didn't care if all my lights were on in the house I didn't even answer the door. Nigerian men are aggressive to the third degree.

heru1976 wrote:

I think Liberian men act like this. I have dated Nigerian men who acted like this. Even though we only went on dates to the movies or dinner. They felt like it should be more than friends. One showed up to my house without calling and I didn't let him in. I didn't care if all my lights were on in the house I didn't even answer the door. Nigerian men are aggressive to the third degree.

and some are very possessive as well.