Why Most Women like to Nag?

I have a co-worker who told me the reason he doesn't want any woman in his life is because most women he has met always nagging and as such he doesn't like it. Is it that women nag because they want to show that they are in control??? Share yor thought yah.

i dont think its a case of nagging per say... or as we see it.
most men are forgetful and needs to be reminded of things, hence the constant reminders and then you guys call it nagging....

for example,

8:00am
Bellah, please dont forget to pick up the laundry at the cleaners on during your lunch hour

ok honey, i will do that.

11:00
bellah, dont forget the laundry oh
no, honey, i wont forget

6:00 pm bellah enters the house with his hands swinging......
honey: bellah, where the laundry i asked you to pick up for me during your lunch hour???

eerr.. uhm.. i forgot

you forgot? aye mehn, i wanted to wear that black dress to the program this evening, ehn you see how you can act?

err. sorry

honey is still fuming..

hahahhaa

candygirl wrote:

i dont think its a case of nagging per say... or as we see it.
most men are forgetful and needs to be reminded of things, hence the constant reminders and then you guys call it nagging....

for example,

8:00am
Bellah, please dont forget to pick up the laundry at the cleaners on during your lunch hour

ok honey, i will do that.

11:00
bellah, dont forget the laundry oh
no, honey, i wont forget

6:00 pm bellah enters the house with his hands swinging......
honey: bellah, where the laundry i asked you to pick up for me during your lunch hour???

eerr.. uhm.. i forgot

you forgot? aye mehn, i wanted to wear that black dress to the program this evening, ehn you see how you can act?

err. sorry

honey is still fuming..

hahahhaa

EXACTLY!!!!!
Which is why I just go ahead and do things myself, that way I'll know for sure it gets done. I personally don't have ANY patience at all.

Ditto! I hope you now understand Bellah.

Damn ... CG but u were detail in your presentation. I like that and i will share with my co-worker...

bellah wrote:

Damn ... CG but u were detail in your presentation. I like that and i will share with my co-worker...

thats just an example of how it may play out and then you guys say we nag...

or another one with cutting the grass, or cleaning the basement/junk room.... :

Proverbs 21:9


It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a nagging wife.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE MEAN....

DISCLOSURE: NOT ALL WOMEN ARE NAGGINGY

Queen_AKA wrote:

Ditto! I hope you now understand Bellah.

The Queeness, most men don't like to be told things ona constant basis. It may be reminder but thy see it as nagging and that is why they left their parent to have their own family. Just come up witht he schedule and at the end of the week see who completed their task and then move on instead of the everyday, second and minute whinning...u see what i am talking about

gadyu wrote:

Proverbs 21:9


It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a nagging wife.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE MEAN....

DISCLOSURE: NOT ALL WOMEN ARE NAGGINGY

who wrote half of Proverbs?? the wisest man in world. a man who was married to 300 women and had 600 concubines

if they didnt nag, then....

U mean King David..hhaahahahahahhahah..the great womanizer and one of the greatest leader of Israel...

bellah wrote:

U mean King David..hhaahahahahahhahah..the great womanizer and one of the greatest leader of Israel...

no, King Solomon..
the man had a real harem.

Some times constant reminders are necessary. If he didn't complete his tasks nor attempted to do them shouldn't we complain? Most especially, if in his very busy schedule, he can find the time to watch the football game but can never find the time to do his chores? Da just example o!

bellah wrote:

Queen_AKA wrote:

Ditto! I hope you now understand Bellah.

The Queeness, most men don't like to be told things ona constant basis. It may be reminder but thy see it as nagging and that is why they left their parent to have their own family. Just come up witht he schedule and at the end of the week see who completed their task and then move on instead of the everyday, second and minute whinning...u see what i am talking about

yeah right , well if they would do what they are told/asked to do the 1st time or in a timly manner, there will be no need for the reminders. The thing with most of yor men is that yor just PROCRASTINATE too much.....ALWAYS wanting to wait till the last min to do things or find out stuff.

reminding different from nagging, ALTOGETHER...

NAGGING: Every day the same tin, same tin over and over, Bellah bought six carat for his fiancee, you went and bought platinum. Everyday I tell yu to get with the program. I told you yesterday, I told you today. Trust me, I will tell you tomorrow.

REMINDER: Honey, you the only man here, please lift up the toilet seat mehn, please....

gadyu wrote:

reminding different from nagging, ALTOGETHER...

NAGGING: Every day the same tin, same tin over and over, Bellah bought six carat for his fiancee, you went and bought platinum. Everyday I tell yu to get with the program. I told you yesterday, I told you today. Trust me, I will tell you tomorrow.

REMINDER: Honey, you the only man here, please lift up the toilet seat mehn, please....

thats exaggerating

and you are right, nagging different from reminding.... thats the next stage AFTER you have been reminded about something you didnt do...

Next stage: Bellah, its been almost two days oh, you got somebody else?

next stage: " you fixed the leaking sink yet? i cant cook with the sink leaking oh, so lets eat out till you do"

Nest stage: Honey, I give you $200.00 to fix that sink since last week. You told me that you hadn't done your hair, so you would use that money to do your hair and the sink would wait. How come now you nagging about this one sink business mehn...shaate!!

gadyu wrote:

reminding different from nagging, ALTOGETHER...

NAGGING: Every day the same tin, same tin over and over, Bellah bought six carat for his fiancee, you went and bought platinum. Everyday I tell yu to get with the program. I told you yesterday, I told you today. Trust me, I will tell you tomorrow.

REMINDER: Honey, you the only man here, please lift up the toilet seat mehn, please....

actually it's 2.25ct ...carry on

"well, after 8 weeks of reminding you about the sink, you finally give 200, which is not even 20% of the cost of repairng the sink, i am sure you knew it would be reallocated. fix the sink or we continue eating Fridays"

Honey, if the sink is more than $1000.00 to repair, I will just have to buy a new one. I will have the plumbers in tomorrow to fix it, okay.

Honey: Ehn whepplay you taking da money from? Just make sure yu remember what I asked you for ....

"did you say the plumbers coming in? cool. perfect. now, can i have that 300 i asked for eons ago to get my nails did?"

candygirl wrote:

bellah wrote:

U mean King David..hhaahahahahahhahah..the great womanizer and one of the greatest leader of Israel...

no, King Solomon..
the man had a real harem.

Oh King Solomon..one of the great philosopher of Israel and because of his Wisdom law and order triump in Judea.

I want a wife and not my mother....Hope u girl will consider that. Don't scare these men away by those nagging behaviour..

Bellah, its not the case of nagging mehn ( all joke aside), most of you guys dont even need an excuse to "run away" sef..

and its actually both ways.. just that the men cry more louder... women dont like being told
"wear your hair like this", " why you cant be slim like bobby's wife?", "ahn lek potatoe greens i like plawa sauce"

oh, and please pick up after yourself... we your wife, not your ma.....