Why Most Married men love single girls???

Most of the young married guys always prefer another relationship??? Why????

I don't know if this is a fact, because am not married, but are you and do you have a single girl?

i think a man is a man married or single.. if he did have more than one single girl when he was single chances are he'll do the same after marriage. As for the why.. i think the men in the village can give the answer the question better than anyone else as to why their friends or themselves love to have more than one girl...

now let me put on my bulletproof for the attack...

WILMOTMASON wrote:

Most of the young married guys always prefer another relationship??? Why????

Hey Willie Project, is that you? Well, I thing this thing is with the individual, and not only young men, but very old ones too.

LOL I havn't seen any statistical data on this one.

One woman is stress enough.

There are ALOT of single(heterosexual) men who are happy without a woman at all.

its a known fact DSP, Stats or not..
One is stress enough yet people still go in for the two or three
so the $99 question.. why?

your hello oh....
da na all the married men dem lor collect single geh them oh..
like Flo said.. if you did it when you were single, chances are you will continue same when married.

also too.. men like young girls cuz they like to keep the illusion that they will keep ( the men) young.
rubbish

Young married men do that because they want to satisfy their selfish ego which is then simply infidelity. Such act when caught will lead to the breakup of the home. It is incumbent upon young men to be careful and not allow all the sexual pleasure of this world to currupt us..

i hae another scenario to this guys.. it seems and in most cases is true that its the man selfish aim for lust to have single ladies even though they're married but a few i beleive do it to satisfy their ego.
what makes u think a man does try to keep more then one girl for fear that if he stay with one she might find him below par... that damages a man's ego for sure so to keep up the facid.. he has many on the line and when one girl gets smart enough to release that she's worth more than being with someone that cheats on her, she either walks away before he finds some excuse to move on to the next one.

do men even need a reason to cheat?

Which came first is the question. Men and younger women, or the word or idea of cheating....answer that and you will find the answer.

I will explain more....

just for the record..men find single gehs because... my lungs. it is just natural, accepted, part of the socialization for most men, and also a very strong part of liberian culture (da dey one i know abt, before yor come kill me). u cannot eat cassava leaves every day. u na happy sef, u got helper. some kinda young thing jes tempting me. nothing wrong if i eat something small, i na divorcing. da my lil thing i bringing up. like candy and flo say-da my small thing can give me energy (so so lies). the sayings are many and common to liberians-all supporting infidelity, in most cases.

some small girls in mombassa said something striking about this: boys are groomed in the space of male adults who tell them, practice makes perfect, sadly, the boys practice on us (teenage girls).

Mr. Journalist...

candygirl wrote:

do men even need a reason to cheat?

The female thing is natural. Though we have tried to develop our brains, the triggers are still there. The rounded hips, the lips, full breasts and finally the challenge.

As human beings though, we should distinguish ourselves by using our brain over our brawn, but the animal instinct in us is too overwhelming.

Though many here thnk it is only Liberian culture, that perception is not true, it is in ALL cultures.

And though some men live the life of prudence, staying with only the wife of their youths, it is really hardly normal.

To get an insight, read "Sperm Wars: The Science of Sex", and you will realize that it is more than just the fact that he is a cheater, that drives him. It is Primordial, it is an instinct born of ancient times.

Hmmm....

krazzy wrote:

just for the record..men find single gehs because... my lungs. it is just natural, accepted, part of the socialization for most men, and also a very strong part of liberian culture (da dey one i know abt, before yor come kill me). u cannot eat cassava leaves every day. u na happy sef, u got helper. some kinda young thing jes tempting me. nothing wrong if i eat something small, i na divorcing. da my lil thing i bringing up. like candy and flo say-da my small thing can give me energy (so so lies). the sayings are many and common to liberians-all supporting infidelity, in most cases.

gadyu wrote:

Which came first is the question. Men and younger women, or the word or idea of cheating....answer that and you will find the answer.

I will explain more....

We want ur input too Gadyu.. the question was married young men and single women.. where do u stand on the issue?

candygirl wrote:

krazzy wrote:

just for the record..men find single gehs because... my lungs. it is just natural, accepted, part of the socialization for most men, and also a very strong part of liberian culture (da dey one i know abt, before yor come kill me). u cannot eat cassava leaves every day. u na happy sef, u got helper. some kinda young thing jes tempting me. nothing wrong if i eat something small, i na divorcing. da my lil thing i bringing up. like candy and flo say-da my small thing can give me energy (so so lies). the sayings are many and common to liberians-all supporting infidelity, in most cases.

LadyFlo wrote:

gadyu wrote:

Which came first is the question. Men and younger women, or the word or idea of cheating....answer that and you will find the answer.

I will explain more....

We want ur input too Gadyu.. the question was married young men and single women.. where do u stand on the issue?

I did. Look at my post above.

You should read the whole book, I DID!
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m2372/is_n1_v35/ai_20746731

agreed. it is natural and a 'natural part of socialization for boys' is to understand that this is natural and acceptable for them. women see too but by the time you decide to get in a relationship with a a younger boy--society has a name for you. the male equvalent is sugar daddy or something like that.

maybe that book should be the next one for our reading club?

gadyu wrote:

The female thing is natural. Though we have tried to develop our brains, the triggers are still there. The rounded hips, the lips, full breasts and finally the challenge.

As human beings though, we should distinguish ourselves by using our brain over our brawn, but the animal instinct in us is too overwhelming.

Though many here thnk it is only Liberian culture, that perception is not true, it is in ALL cultures.

And though some men live the life of prudence, staying with only the wife of their youths, it is really hardly normal.

To get an insight, read "Sperm Wars: The Science of Sex", and you will realize that it is more than just the fact that he is a cheater, that drives him. It is Primordial, it is an instinct born of ancient times.

Hmmm....

Well, society is growing up and many women are now dating younger men. Many Liberian women may not know this, since many of them, and I use the next term without any pun, many of them are uptight about sex as soon as they think they developp one strand of gray hair in their pubic area, but when women get to 35-40 and the fires start to die, that is in that relatively short period that they experience some of the best sex of their lives, unfortunately men are at that time looking to their younger compatriots.

Smart women of that age without a willing husband or partner though will find comfort in the arms of a younger man, by coercion through wealth or using secret trysts.

Well, let me rest....yaw sarry.

Primordial, it is an instinct born of ancient times.

>?????

is that a nice qwee way of saying men are born with the urge to cheat?