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DSP
Number of posts : 940 Points : 1946 Registration date : 2008-04-02
| Subject: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Sun Jun 01, 2008 8:01 am | |
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African men- 'specially Nigerians - lawd pupa god! I like compliments as much as the other woman does. However, don't be telling me that I have child baring hips and all dat razzamatazz- it's quite off putting and frankly quite creepy. Another thinng, what's the the stiffling, stalker type ting?? I mean how many things do you need to utter to someone in a day? and If you call and the phone isn't answered, don't call back in quick succession! the phone still won't be answered... - Quote :
I agree they can be stubborn. I had a friend and we decided to go out to the club as a group thing. 2 guys and 2 girls, well my friend's friend was interested in me and the next thing I know it was on. He asked me if he could buy me a drink, I don't drink so I told him no thanks. When he went to the bar another guy asked me to dance, I was dacning with the guy and could see out of the corner of my eyes he was standing there getting pissed. He drank whatever he was drinking and asked me to dance, fine I danced with him until he started being too touchy touchy besides now his breath was stinking. The we got int an arguememt with him trying to tell me I can't dance with anybody else. That was on a Friday night, he showed up at my friend"s job ( which was down the street from my apartment) proceeded to sit in the lobby until I came home. My friend warned me I asked one of my girlfriend's if I could sleep at her place, she said sure we went shopping for clothes, underwear tooth brush and things. He camped out there the whole night, when I came home he had callled and cussed so much demanding to know where I was. When he finally got me on the phone he wanted to know how many babies that we were going to have. I told him none, he argued how could I say that I didn't want any babies, every woman has to have babies and that was that. He then decided he would work while I stayed home, I told him no that would never happen. He then said that I could work and he would stay home. My friend swears I must have kissed him or something the way he acted a fool. He did so many other stupid things, I'm sure it would be funny on TV but while you are in it it's not funny at all. My family and friends were dying laughing, they just wanted me to give this guy a chance so they would have more stories to laugh at. He was very handsome and all but I just wasn't feeling him at all.
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- Africans on a whole have dis aura of excitement
going on with them. They just always a couple notches higher than I would like. The ones that were born in the states (or just outside Africa) seem to be toned down a bit though... | |
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Edina
Number of posts : 589 Age : 101 My Mood : Points : 155 Registration date : 2008-04-10
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 1:36 am | |
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LadyFlo
Number of posts : 2224 Location : Decatur, GA Say Whatever : Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood : Points : 213 Registration date : 2008-04-22
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 2:06 am | |
| well i've heard of one or two like that but never experience it to that magnitude before. | |
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DSP
Number of posts : 940 Points : 1946 Registration date : 2008-04-02
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 1:25 pm | |
| LOL
Just getting an opinion. Everyone's reality is different and certain people attract certain people. | |
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LadyFlo
Number of posts : 2224 Location : Decatur, GA Say Whatever : Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood : Points : 213 Registration date : 2008-04-22
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 2:17 pm | |
| - DSP wrote:
- LOL
Just getting an opinion. Everyone's reality is different and certain people attract certain people. true but it does happen.. like i said mine wasnt to that magnitude of the guy asking how many kids we were gonna have but he had convince himself we were a couple already.. without even going on a date. just casual conversation amongst friends on two ocassions. how would u handle a situation like that | |
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Africanjuice
Number of posts : 79 Location : GA, Duluth Say Whatever : Negative thinking, don't you waste your thoughts. My Mood : Points : 0 Registration date : 2008-05-30
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 9:05 pm | |
| She and the Guy is talking... it looks like she made the guy to think she like him back... that is y i don' rush into relationship.... | |
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LadyFlo
Number of posts : 2224 Location : Decatur, GA Say Whatever : Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood : Points : 213 Registration date : 2008-04-22
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 9:55 pm | |
| - Africanjuice wrote:
- She and the Guy is talking... it looks like she made the guy to think she like him back...
that is y i don' rush into relationship.... leading him on to think she likes him isn't right i agree but how does that give him the impression that they should start counting number of kids to have after marriage and camping outside her apartment all night? | |
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Africanjuice
Number of posts : 79 Location : GA, Duluth Say Whatever : Negative thinking, don't you waste your thoughts. My Mood : Points : 0 Registration date : 2008-05-30
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 9:58 pm | |
| every guy does that ! ... that is easy to say .. just making conversion | |
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LadyFlo
Number of posts : 2224 Location : Decatur, GA Say Whatever : Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood : Points : 213 Registration date : 2008-04-22
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Africanjuice
Number of posts : 79 Location : GA, Duluth Say Whatever : Negative thinking, don't you waste your thoughts. My Mood : Points : 0 Registration date : 2008-05-30
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Mon Jun 02, 2008 11:17 pm | |
| I'm trying to be real with you flower... i have done it before and girls have done it too me too.... how they wants to have my kid and marry and blah blah ... just conversion... | |
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LadyFlo
Number of posts : 2224 Location : Decatur, GA Say Whatever : Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood : Points : 213 Registration date : 2008-04-22
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:00 am | |
| ok i got you now.. well that does happen also.. just conversation ehnn... nice way of putting it . | |
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mahyou
Number of posts : 89 My Mood : Points : 0 Registration date : 2008-04-23
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:22 am | |
| i find such an attitude a complete turnoff..... | |
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DSP
Number of posts : 940 Points : 1946 Registration date : 2008-04-02
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:27 am | |
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- i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....
pm me your turn ons. | |
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Geyla Queen Admin
Number of posts : 6443 Age : 46 Location : Atlanta, GA Say Whatever : I'm still holding on. My Mood : Points : 4301 Registration date : 2008-03-28
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DSP
Number of posts : 940 Points : 1946 Registration date : 2008-04-02
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mahyou
Number of posts : 89 My Mood : Points : 0 Registration date : 2008-04-23
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:31 am | |
| - DSP wrote:
- mahyou wrote:
- i find such an attitude a complete turnoff.....
pm me your turn ons. Bring your ear lets talk secret ....... | |
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LadyFlo
Number of posts : 2224 Location : Decatur, GA Say Whatever : Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood : Points : 213 Registration date : 2008-04-22
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:34 am | |
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Geyla Queen Admin
Number of posts : 6443 Age : 46 Location : Atlanta, GA Say Whatever : I'm still holding on. My Mood : Points : 4301 Registration date : 2008-03-28
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:36 am | |
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mahyou
Number of posts : 89 My Mood : Points : 0 Registration date : 2008-04-23
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 2:38 am | |
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LadyFlo
Number of posts : 2224 Location : Decatur, GA Say Whatever : Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood : Points : 213 Registration date : 2008-04-22
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 3:12 am | |
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DSP
Number of posts : 940 Points : 1946 Registration date : 2008-04-02
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 3:20 am | |
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DSP
Number of posts : 940 Points : 1946 Registration date : 2008-04-02
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 3:21 am | |
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DSP
Number of posts : 940 Points : 1946 Registration date : 2008-04-02
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 3:21 am | |
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heru1976
Number of posts : 478 Location : Florida My Mood : Points : 2 Registration date : 2008-04-01
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 7:08 am | |
| I don't think Liberian men act like this. I have dated Nigerian men who acted like this. Even though we only went on dates to the movies or dinner. They felt like it should be more than friends. One showed up to my house without calling and I didn't let him in. I didn't care if all my lights were on in the house I didn't even answer the door. Nigerian men are aggressive to the third degree.
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Geyla Queen Admin
Number of posts : 6443 Age : 46 Location : Atlanta, GA Say Whatever : I'm still holding on. My Mood : Points : 4301 Registration date : 2008-03-28
| Subject: Re: Ladies Do You Feel Most African Men Behave This Way? Tue Jun 03, 2008 7:56 am | |
| - heru1976 wrote:
- I think Liberian men act like this. I have dated Nigerian men who acted like this. Even though we only went on dates to the movies or dinner. They felt like it should be more than friends. One showed up to my house without calling and I didn't let him in. I didn't care if all my lights were on in the house I didn't even answer the door. Nigerian men are aggressive to the third degree.
and some are very possessive as well. | |
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